This week's speaker was Jeremy Lent, a systems thinker who has spent his career on one stubborn question: how do the stories a society tells about itself become the world it actually builds? He's chased it across history in The Patterning Instinct and The Web of Meaning, and his new book — Ecocivilization, out barely a week — brings that lens to the present, diagnosing why our current system is failing and sketching a life-affirming one to take its place. He'd been on the book-launch circuit for days, but said this stop felt different: the people in the room weren't waiting to be talked at, they were already trying to build the world he'd come to describe.
In the room · Lightning Society
His diagnosis is colder and clearer than the usual climate talk: the system isn't malfunctioning. It's a wealth pump, only a few centuries old, doing precisely what it was designed to do — extract, exploit, accelerate — and it will keep doing it until we build something that makes it obsolete.
Part 2 · The Vision
Author, Ecocivilization
After the break, Lent didn't so much reveal his answer as confirm the room's. The popcorn round had just filled the air with the principles of a life-affirming world, and his slides fed almost every one of them back. An ecological civilization, he argued, isn't his idea or anyone's — it's the convergence point of indigenous wisdom, ecological economics, systems biology, and a dozen movements that have never shared a language. Its taproot is the oldest lesson life has to teach: things last by cooperating.
“I've been doing book-launch events all week — but this is something very different. This is a real community thing happening, people actually working out how to build the world we want. And I love it.”
Actions from the room
Andrea & Abby
A space to share grief and despair together — because the weight of what we're facing is too much to carry alone. The first step of Lent's pathway, made real.
Jeff
Building a global network of grassroots organizations — connecting the islands of coherence so they can find and amplify each other. (He's on it with Jeremy every week.)
Lindsay
Training through a neighborhood justice club: protest support, mutual aid, and rapid response for when ICE shows up in the community.
Andrew
An AI technologist rallying designers and engineers to build protections against what the technology is strip-mining — from the inside.
Jason
Translate these frameworks for people who'll never come to a salon — meet them where they are, in their own language. (Yes, even Knicks fans.)
Catherine
Gathering data from community gardens across the city to prove their value and protect the land they grow on.
Jason
Ham radio and Meshtastic mesh-texting, taught with the nonprofit Signals Rising — keeping frontline communities connected when the grid isn't.
Amy
Bringing people who feel powerless together with the organizations already doing the work — over dinner. (dinnersforthe99.com)
Kevin
His partner's fifteen-year project at the Oculus: handwritten, one-page stories from strangers. People read, write their own, and stay for hours — reconnecting with the messy whole of being human.
“If real change has only ever come from catastrophe, where's the leverage now — and where's the hope?”
Asked by Ben
Jeremy: Honestly, most big swings from inequality back toward equality have followed catastrophe — world wars, collapses. I won't sell you Pollyanna. But the unraveling is exactly where the opening is. A year ago a public stake in the AI giants was unthinkable; this week Bernie Sanders put a bill in the Senate for fifty percent public ownership of OpenAI and Anthropic — a common dividend for everyone. As things get crazier, the room for bold new ideas gets bigger, not smaller. And the hopelessness is manufactured: the billionaires need us to believe we're powerless. The moment we see our collective power, theirs weakens.
“How do we keep these ideas from being weaponized as "ecofascism" the moment they start to work?”
Asked by Ben
Jeremy: Don't fight it head-on. They own the media, the money, the military — you won't win that boxing match. Think aikido, not boxing. The one thing we have that they don't is the hearts and minds of almost everyone alive who wants a life of dignity. So the task isn't to win the argument; it's to keep turning toward people's hearts and offering a pathway that feels better than the authoritarian one. People get pulled toward hate because it's offered to them. Offer something truer.
“Rights of nature feels right — but how do you get someone who isn't already in this room to accept something that radical?”
Asked by Gian
Jeremy: Use the Three Horizons model. Horizon One is what everyone can back today — cut fossil-fuel subsidies, invest in renewables. Horizon Three is the radical destination — transform governance, grant legal rights to nature. The trap is Horizon Two: disruptions that look exciting but snap back to Horizon One. The electric car is the classic example — it just re-instantiates billionaire ownership and extraction. Rights of nature is a Horizon-Two move that actually points toward Horizon Three. You don't ask people to swallow it whole; you show them it's already winning, city by city.
“How long do we actually have — and after five years writing this, how did you not fall into despair?”
Asked by Dylan
Jeremy: Anyone who gives you a date is lying. These are nonlinear systems nested inside nonlinear systems; collapse could come next year or thirty years out — and the longer it takes, the more room we have to change it. On despair: a big part of me lives right on its edge. I don't fight that part — in Internal Family Systems terms, I honor it, I feel its care. But the deeper truth is that we're all, ultimately, in the service of life. And giving yourself fully to what's possible turns out to be one of the most energizing things a person can do.
From the room
Ecocivilization - Bookshop.org
Ecocivilization | Jeremy Lent | Substack
Two Weeks, No Grid - Resiliency Action Lab #1 · Luma
⚡Off-Grid Comms with Signals Rising- Resiliency Action Lab #2 · Luma
PSYCA Cosmic Community Dinner — Friends in Town, Bridges to Build · Luma
Dinners for the 99%
Partiful: Party Invitation Maker
Facilitation chat
Partiful - Online Invitation Maker
The Strangers Project
Metacrisis WhatsApp community chat
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